Do you recognize yourself in one or more points? Yes.....

Often this has to do with old pains from the past, with an unhealed inner child and with experiences from our own childhood that have not yet been processed. Painful learning moments and experiences, less beautiful memories and feelings, which caused you to reject yourself at a very young age, to judge yourself and all this has shaped you into the person you are today.

This is not so much about what you have done, but how you have come to think and see about yourself. This is a created image of yourself. It is simply the feeling that a person, a situation or experience has given you, which has caused you to look at yourself dismissively. And this rejecting feeling of how you see yourself attracts experiences in the outside world, in which you are also confirmed in your rejection

What a child lacks in this life is real, pure pure love. The feeling of being allowed to be completely there for who he or she is. A child wants attention. A child wants to be seen and heard. A child longs to be loved unconditionally, boundlessly and to be allowed to be exactly as it is.

For a child, attention equals survival. Without attention, a human child has no chance of survival. This primal instinct is stored in the child's system. From this belief, therefore, the child will do anything to get this attention. When a child does not experience this or has not received it, it will look for behavior that is rewarded with attention, this can manifest itself in negative, nagging, perfectionist, dominant, busy presence or shy, timid behavior.

So a lot can go wrong in a child's life. Of course, this does not apply to everyone! Every experience the child goes through, which it does not understand and therefore cannot process, produces a separated part of its personality. A part that stops growing up and will continue to manifest itself later in adulthood as the child as it was.

These separated parts we call our inner child. We have them stored in our subconscious in all ages. Sometimes, in unexpected moments, they come out for a moment. These are the moments when we are touched by something that is happening now, causing a child to emerge, acting and thinking from the past. You understand that this child has the consciousness appropriate to that age and therefore can only give the reaction appropriate to that age. The child cannot see beyond what happened then. Therefore, the child also cannot see clearly to the present situation and will most likely overreact to the event.

Giving love heals!!!

Every time you feel touched, you need love ..... from yourself !!! to heal and your inner child needs love because it has been shortchanged, not understood and not allowed to express itself, things like that. That makes every time you are touched or challenged in something, that this is an invitation to turn inward, instead of focusing on the outside world. Because then you can change from within and start attracting something else.

In this inner child healing journey we will not only heal old pains, blockages and negative thought patterns and beliefs, but also reconnect with our true Self. Our inner guidance, our inner wisdom and power, to once again feel total self-acceptance and self-love in freedom, innocence, joy and trust.